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Should We Break UP?
Take some time to answer the following questions honestly:
- Do you dislike being with your boyfriend / girlfriend most of the time?
- Do you feel like he / she doesn’t listens to you most of the time?
- Has she / he lost interest in you and your needs for the most part?
- Does your partner take away more from the relationship than he / she contributes?
- Do you or your boyfriend / girlfriend avoid participating in activities together?
- Do you think your partner treats you like a child or something less than you deserve?
- Do you think your significant other makes many poor decisions?
- Is your partner frequently rude and impatient with you or others?
- Do you believe that your partner lies often?
- Has your partner cheated on you or do you highly suspect they have?
- Has the sexual attraction for your lover significantly diminished?
- Do you feel like you will be judged or criticized by your boyfriend / girlfriend for many things?
- Is it a possibility that you stay in the relationship for financial purposes more than friendship?
- Do you find yourself imagining being with someone else?
If you have answered yes to 2-3 answers then it’s time to have a serious heart to heart talk about these major issues and concerns before moving along. If you have answered yes to 4 or more questions, or you have answered yes to question
1, 9 or 13 your relationship is probably significantly damaged and unhealthy. It is most likely time for coaching, counseling or a break up.
For those of you that have given 4 or more yes answers to the above checklist or answered yes to 1, 9,or 13, it’s now up to you to decide your own future. Take control of your life and stop compromising. The good news is that you have the choice and you don’t have to go through this rocky road alone. Finding Your Love Now has coaches to walk beside you, we will listen! Each of us has been where you are standing today. Having a coach on your side can help bring clarity and direction to your life. Check out our EXPERTS page, contact us today and see who you feel most comfortable with.
Healthy Breakup Rules
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